The Virtue of Flexibility

Trees look strong compared with the wild reeds in the field. But when the storm comes the trees are uprooted, whereas the wild reeds, while moved back and forth by the wind, remain rooted and are standing up again when the storm has calmed down.

Flexibility is a great virtue. When we cling to our own positions and are not willing to let our hearts be moved back and forth a little by the ideas or actions of others, we may easily be broken. Being like wild reeds does not mean being wishy-washy. It means moving a little with the winds of the time while remaining solidly anchored in the ground. A humorless, intense, opinionated rigidity about current issues might cause these issues to break our spirits and make us bitter people. Let’s be flexible while being deeply rooted. (Henri JM Nouwen)

3 Responses to “The Virtue of Flexibility”

  1. viera MVSE Says:

    Beauty can be found in the most unanticipated places. Lessons can be learned as the heart is touched by sadness you cannot control.

  2. Myr Says:

    woi mana part 2 nya ?! :-p

  3. johnny Says:

    woi juga woi…

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